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Moving Abroad Without Losing Yourself

Written by on 18 January 2026

Immigration Isn’t Just a Move — It’s a Transition

Immigration Is More Than Paperwork

Planning to emigrate often begins with checklists: visas, flights, schools, and housing. There’s excitement — the promise of opportunity, safety, or a fresh start. But alongside that excitement sits a quieter fear: Who will I be when everything familiar is gone?

Moving countries isn’t only about geography. It’s about leaving behind language, rhythms, church communities, and the everyday markers that once reminded you who you are. For many believers, faith, identity, and belonging are the first things to feel unsettled.

The Bible reminds us that God understands this tension. “The Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore” (Psalm 121:8). But even with that promise, transition can still feel disorienting.

The Hidden Challenges Expats Don’t Talk About

The early days abroad often feel like an adventure. New places, new accents, new routines. But once the novelty fades, reality settles in.

Loneliness can arrive unexpectedly. Conversations take more effort. Cultural differences exhaust you. Even simple tasks can feel heavy when you’re operating in a second language. Spiritually, many expats describe a quiet drift — church feels unfamiliar, worship sounds different, and the sense of home they once felt with God seems distant.

Parents notice something else: children adapt faster. They absorb language, culture, and identity quickly, while adults grieve what was lost. That gap can leave parents feeling unanchored, wondering how to hold their family together amid change.

Staying Rooted While Living Abroad

This is where spiritual grounding becomes essential. When everything external shifts, internal anchors matter more than ever.

Faith routines — prayer, worship, Scripture — aren’t luxuries overseas. They are lifelines. Familiar worship songs, hearing God’s Word in your heart language, and listening to voices that sound like home can steady a restless soul.

Hebrews 13:8 reminds us, “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.” When culture changes, God does not. Staying connected to Him helps you remember that your identity is not defined by location, accent, or passport.

Practical Tips for a Healthier Transition

A gentler transition doesn’t happen by accident. It’s built intentionally.

  • Keep spiritual rhythms, even if church looks different abroad. Consistency matters more than perfection.
  • Stay connected to your home language. Faith lands deeper when you hear it the way you first learned it.
  • Create ‘small South Africa’ moments — familiar food, music, stories, and shared memories. These aren’t weaknesses; they’re emotional anchors.
  • Don’t isolate. Community — even digital community — protects against long-term emotional and spiritual fatigue.

Proverbs 4:23 encourages us: “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”

Where the Radio Pulpit App Fits In

This is where tools like the Radio Pulpit App become more than convenient.

Across time zones and continents, it offers faith on demand — multiple stations, multiple languages, live streaming, and daily encouragement. For many expats, it becomes a familiar voice in an unfamiliar place. A reminder that faith doesn’t end when borders change.

Wherever you’re going, you don’t have to go alone.

Take your faith, your language, and your sense of belonging with you. Download the Radio Pulpit App and stay connected — wherever life takes you.

Written by Brahm van Wyk

For more Biblical teachings, listen to Bible Perspective or read our daily devotional, The Word for Today.

The views expressed herein are those of the presenters and writers, not Radio Pulpit.


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